Friday, August 5, 2011
When Your In love With Someone Who Lives Miles Away...? HELP?
Can't say it will work. Can't say it wont work. First realize that when you fall for someone close to you (i.e. a crush) it is fueled constantly and as you connect and become familiar, it fades to a normal relationship. By not having this frequent contact, you two are probably experiencing the same crush high, but never have the proximity for it to diminish. Let this not discourage you, because fairy tale romances and true love do exist. For you and many, being apart can make you anxious and when you are finally near each other it could make you hasty and even distort your perception of the relationships potential. When you go to your dads, talk with this boy- don't treat it like a relationship, but as a friendship that you know will end and savor every second of it. If you treat it as a small gift to be with him just a little while, you can create a foundation for a real relationship. There might come a time when you need to decided if you want to commit to a real relationship- do not be afraid to take a chance. It may end with the most pain you've ever experienced, but it may end as the anecdote your maid of honor tells in your wedding toast. Best of luck!
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